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Charlotte Argyrou Creative Business Mentoring 

Why It Started

It was December, and as has become tradition, I was taking a quick lap or three around the local park with a few dog-walking friends, post school-run. One, a highly experienced (employed) Pilates teacher, was about to branch out on her own and launch her debut course under her own name. 

“I’ve put posters on the park noticeboard,” she said. 

“Funny,” replied another friend, also an aspiring fitness entrepreneur, “I’ve never even noticed the park had noticeboards.”

“Nor had I,” replied the Pilates teacher. 

There followed a conversation about local marketing strategies, that felt like it stemmed from a bygone era.

“I think I can help,” I tentatively proposed.  

By lunchtime, I had inhaled some coffee, bashed out a logo and info graphics on Canva and launched a private Facebook group. I nervously invited a handful of friends and checked every three minutes to see if any had accepted.

Starting out with Charlotte Argyrou Illustration, I had the expectation that my job would be 95% drawing and maybe 5% post office runs.

The reality is very different. Branding, marketing and nurturing a customer base is a whacking great part of the process. Some weeks in the early days, it was everything. Even now, through winter, there can be a week where 50% of my time is content creation and relationship-building. Without it, there are no bookings and there is no drawing. Or worse, there’s the wrong kind of enquiries and soul-destroying work (in my case, that was requests for tattoo designs and pet portraits). 

Marketing your business through channels that don’t resonate with you are unlikely to resonate with your ideal client.  It was a glaring error in the Park Posters Plan.  My friends needed to seek more intimate and effective connection with their desired audience, and I’m confident my cosy forum for shared inspiration, accountability and action is just the tonic.  

Who Needs Creative Business Mentoring 

The group is for women in their 30s and 40s plus, who have been buzzing with an idea that just won’t quit. Those parameters aren’t set in stone, but it’s where my expertise lies. Either since becoming a mother, or as a result of the pandemic, or a gentle revelation through age, she now craves more flexible work and greater creative fulfilment.

It’s for luxe lifestyle businesses, which are aimed at customers who aren’t purely shopping by price. My group members have talent, style and expertise and they seek a customer who desires and respects that skillset.

The group will best suit women who have imperfect ideas and are willing to share in order to learn, though taking imperfect action. She may well lean towards perfectionism, but she has the courage to know that done is better than perfect, there is such a thing as good enough, and she’s not going to wait until she’s truly ready. She’s passionate about her subject, but doesn’t feel confident communicating as a personal brand and converting her service and skills into sales. 

If you are want these things, this group is for you:

– land that all-important first ideal client

– grow your profitability

– work smart, flexible hours

– live in alignment with your goals

– be your most courageous, imperfect, beautiful self 

What’s involved? 

Every week, we’ll follow the same schedule. On Mondays, I’ll invite you to set an intention for the week. This isn’t a to do list. Rather, it’s asking you to pinpoint one thing that going to move you towards you goals. One thing that actually moves the needle. It’s a simple habit to get into, with remarkable transformational results. Imagine knowing on a Monday what you actually want to get out of your week! 

On Tuesdays, I’ll set a short piece of homework. Often, this will be an idea for you to think on, a creative new perspective, or a mindset game. There’s no winners and losers. No deadline. No pressure to share your work (though I strongly advocate for sharing as it is how we can all learn from each other).  

What’s the time commitment, per week?

That’s a how long is a piece of string question. As with most personal development work, you get out of it what you put in. But, it could be as little as:

Monday: Intention setting, 3 mins

Tuesday: Homework, 10 mins

Friday: Gratitude practice, 2 mins

That’s a 15 minute weekly commitment to create transformation in your business and move you from confusion to clarity, overwhelm to action.  

Am I too experienced, or not experienced enough?

No, it’s my belief that this work benefits every business owner, even if you’ve been established for ten years. If you are completely new to both creative business and personal development work, this is an easy, painless way to test the waters and if you do the work, you will experience growth. 

Do I have access to you?

I provide daily feedback to comments and will respond to all posts within the group. But I do not provide free private one-to-one mentorship. 

Do I have to pay?

No. The private Facebook Group is free. 

I can’t wait to welcome you into the group and support you as you create your dream creative business. 

love Charlotte

2022 Floral Trends

Introduction

Where We Were, Where We Are Now

Let’s kick off the 2022 Floral Trends Report by looking back at its predecessor. My 2021 report began with an unsettling disclaimer by way of introduction. To save you searching, here’s a reminder of where we were one year ago:

I say “unsettling” for two reasons. Firstly, oooooooph, does anyone else feel sick to the stomach to be reminded of the phrase deathbed weddings? Yet in the same exhalation, feel a deep rising, swelling wave of gratitude that we are no longer stood in the desperate place?

But secondly, I hear a nervousness in my tone of writing, so fearful of criticism. Scared I’d be slammed for insensitivity, for boldly and blindly soldiering on chitchatting about flowers when people were experiencing grief and despair in the strangles of Covid-19. For me, it articulates the key narrative thread that will run through this report and a critical transition from last year through this year and beyond. We’ll call it Being Human.

Welcome to my Contributing Editors 

This year I’m welcoming Katie Sutton, creative stylist and floral designer, The Vintage House That Could and Isobel Watts, florist and grower, Wizz and Wild. Katie’s work has been on my radar for years but she really piqued my attention with a single blog post, back in January 2018. In the blog, she bid a kind-hearted farewell to the Cath Kidston-inspired faux vintage floral décor that dominated her aesthetic. In its place, she welcomed an authentic blend of modern craftmanship and real antiques. It was a bold move, especially after building a reputation based on a specific trend. I was keen to ask Katie how it all played out a couple of years and a pandemic down the line.

Issy is an incredible florist with a defined and lustworthy faded glory aesthetic. But it’s her work as a grower that I have been utterly seduced by this year, as she’s shared her Lockdown life on the land, harvesting her cutting garden and hosting small scale workshops. It’s all exquisitely documented in Issy’s Weekly Words e-newsletter, which I highly recommend for learning about seasonality or simply to indulge in some pure countryside escapism all from the comfort of your sofa.

About

The Floral Trends Report has never professed to be a definitive guide to what’s hot and what’s not. I wouldn’t dare! But this year more than ever, conversations with clients and suppliers haven’t focused on colours or floral species or styles of installations or arrangements. Rather, we’ve all enjoyed a good gossip about how we present our passions and values to secure desireable work with dream couples and clients. Happy to go with the flow, this year we are largely looking at trends within our floral businesses, covering communication, branding, joy, finding strength and planting roots in work that is meaningful to us and lands with our customers. Fighting back with renewed energy, resilience, creative impulse and experience.

Chapters

1. Floral Business: Being Human

2. Personality-Led Branding

3. Show Us Some Context

4. Waste is Unpoetic

5. Rooted in Nature, Rooted at Home

1.  Floral Business: Being Human

This report is written for all our shared online communities – florists, growers, stylists, creatives and of course, wedding couples-to-be. But whether you are a consumer or supplier, most of us experienced a blurriness in the boundaries between “work” and “life” as we’ve renegotiated our understanding of normal day-to-day living.

Until 2020, we would, for the most part, market our floral businesses quite aside from our homelife. Then with shops closed, access to suppliers restricted, studio space sacrificed or shared with our bubbles, the home became the workplace and what followed was a natural softening and dismantling of an invisible boundary business coaches and personal development books had advised us to build. 

I shared with Andie that it is my feeling that this past year, female floral businesses owners are doing away with previous aspirations to having boundaries between our life and work. Maybe we once tried to compartmentalise away chicken nugget dinners, parents’ evenings and the thanklessness of folding laundry. Instead, we’d promote dreamy photos of curated floral tablescapes and luscious landscapes, our art and interiors all primed and prepped. Now, it seems there is value in sharing it all mushed in together. Our social media audiences enjoy the rollercoaster, and our peeks and troughs echo their own – a source of comfort and connection, as well as inspiration and entertainment. 

Andie: “I couldn’t agree with you more although I don’t think it has changed, I think it has always been this way and just wholly unreported. There was a fear that admitting that you were struggling with keeping on top of the house or the kids’ uniforms would undermine your professional abilities in some way. Like if you couldn’t even manage the logistics of the afterschool clubs, what hope did you have of fulfilling 1000 dahlia orders!”

“The idea that there was a boundary between work and life was a facade and there was shame and embarrassment associated with the juggle.”

– Andrea McDowell, founder, Dahlia Beach

With hindsight, I can reflect on my 2021 – particularly the dark Jan-March homeschool period – and acknowledge that I experienced a daily conflict and relentless pull to thrive in both camps.

Had to be an excellent, attentive mother, wife and friend.

Had to be a one-woman wedding business survival story.

At this time, my Wedding Bouquet Illustration Service gained a glitzy national win at The Wedding Industry Awards, but in the same instant I experienced fear and upset that all my summer’s wedding work would be pulled from beneath me for the second year. It would leave me floating aimlessly, superficially successful, but without requisite substance to not quit. All the while, the runaway train of social media’s tyrannical rule would have us constantly present something, anything relevant to appease an algorithm and cling to and unite with our longed-for customers and community.

Maybe it’s a sink or swim mentality, but the reason I share this moment of reflection within an exploration of 2022 floral trends is to pinpoint the moment where and why the shift in how we present our floral businesses had (has) to happen.

Andie: “I have found that far from undermining my customers’ confidence in me, admitting when I’ve made mistakes or failed, has shown a vulnerability which people can connect with emotionally. We’re all human after all. Sometimes I’m dancing around the field with arms full of flowers and the sun on my face and other days I’m face down in the dirt which tears running down my face. This is the journey for ALL of us so it’s about time we were owned our stories and wore them with pride.”

Photo: Carla Blain Photography   |   Styling: Katie Sutton, The Vintage House That Could

Personality Led Branding

Katie: “I think the main lesson I have learnt from last year is that couples should have exactly what they want. Weddings are and always will be the most important event in most people’s lives where their love can be celebrated and if that means you want a relaxed chilled out party in a field with no speeches and no cake then go for it. Equally if they want to go all out and be extravagant then that’s also allowed. It’s the vibe that’s important and my job is to ensure that the couple’s vibe is clearly evident in all aspects of that day. Guests should walk in and immediately feel like they are at A & B’s wedding and not some generic off the peg event.”

It’s where I feel couples and wedding businesses suffer at the hands of social media and search engines. Although it blows open opportunities and access to information and inspiration, there’s a homogenising process that happens almost without your knowing. As you click on an image that appeals, the dark lords of the internet decide to show you more or the same, hoping to keep your attention longer and put more money-generating adverts in front of you. The consequence is you are introduced to increasing numbers of similar brands and businesses, which can have the effect of making you feel there is one look, or one way to do things. You feel compelled to keep up. The definition between a trend and everything looking the same becomes hazy.  

One way to have real impact on a wedding day is to work with couples who are attracted to work with us, because of us. That means booking us not due to geography or pricepoint – couples have so much choice now – but because they are magnetically attracted to our values, natural style and ethos. Here’s the critical point:

You don’t have to have an out there personality.

You don’t have to reinvent the wheel.

You don’t need to be political, or take a stand on all current affairs.

You don’t have to share aspects of your life you don’t want to.

Having a personality-led brand is an invitation to connect B2B and B2C, not a competition or an endless, exhausting PR campaign.

(Currently, my dusty mirror selfies always inspire customers and suppliers to say hello, far more so than glossy professional imagery. It’s pretty representative of the move away from formality, accelaterated by the pandemic perhaps – one woman running her empire from her phone. )

Let’s pull in some thoughts from experienced branding pros. Joanna Southwell supports bridal businesses to find their place in the market, especially from a retail point of view. I asked Joanna how we can all find our own unique space on- and offline.

Freya Deabill creates branding concepts and design elements for wedding professionals (as well as wedding stationery for couples who aren’t afraid to swerve conventions). I asked Freya how we can work through feeling stuck in a particular style. Or what if couples are asking for a look that feels inauthentic or copied from Pinterest? Or worse, we feel compelled to mould to it. 

3. Show Us Some Context

As Pinterest Perfection loses its lustre, I sense a growing appreciation of floral businesses that fluently integrate real weddings, styled shoots, meaningful community and real life. Katie fully embodies this by treating us to a photo of her own home every nine squares or so. Far from losing a customer base by showing her real environment and floral-filled life minus the professional photography, she inspires her customers. A virtual peep through the window excites us with this moment of intimacy and invitation to connection, and consequently brings us in and along on the journey with her. It is the context that makes everything make sense, showcases genuine passion and nurtures customer loyalty and investment.

I’m going to emerge from the Closet of Guilty Pleasure Hard-Crushing Obsession for Katie’s kitchen sink photography (Zuzana at Fig & Flower’s workspace is another perfect example). These are images that really fill the boots of what I’m seeking when I tap on the Instagram icon on my homescreen. I wrote to Katie:

Charlotte: “Hi Katie, Am I right in thinking that photos of your DIVINE kitchen sink

are some of the most saved grid posts you’ve ever shared on Instagram?”

Katie: “Hi, yes they are!”

(Pictured top row: Katie The Vintage House That Could‘s kitchen sink   |   Pictured bottom row: Zuzana Fig & Flower‘s workroom)

Behind-the-scenes snaps presented as quality content please me because they is just so effective at communicating not only the aspirational entertainment we crave, but also at effortlessly educating customers. In showing the stages of preparation in our floral work – not only relegated to spontaneous Stories but proudly on our website sales’ pages and our glossier grids – we help explain both our pricepoints and our core values.

Beyond just a bouquet

Beyond just an illustration

Beyond just an invitation, dress or cake

Whether as a consumer or as a fellow wedding supplier, when we witness the growing, sourcing, transportation, preparation, styling, dismantling, recycling or repurposing of flowers (or any other element of a wedding for that matter) we decrease a potential customer’s urge to hustle for discounts and become less likely to be ghosted when we provide quotes.

show us beyond just a bouquet

I asked Issy what her customers are asking for.

Issy: “Full and fantastic in the scale of things and intricate with details. After a year (plus) of constant restrictions and being told ‘no’, I have found that many of my clients for 2022 are breaking the boundaries and going big. Whether that is with wild, whimsical archways, or dramatic colours and textures, I feel as if everyone is ready to burst at the seams with creativity, and so am I. In terms of style, I am looking towards textures and shape to inspire my work. Long stems of beautiful, reflexed roses, with seasonal fruits and berries nestled lower within arrangements creating depth and detail. On the surface these works are full of shape and structure, and when you look more closely, they are filled with magic and seasonal meaning. More and more clients are asking for a specific variety of flower, and for the cutting garden this is a really exciting time to be able to start to tailor our orders to what we are sowing and growing for upcoming weddings and events.”

“I have found that many of my clients for 2022 are breaking the boundaries and going big.”

– Issy Watts, florist & grower, Wizz & Wild

For me, it is an inevitable outcome of Issy’s year that people are jostling to work with her in the hope of absorbing that magic and seasonal meaning. She shows us and speaks to us about every element of thought and manual labour that goes into making a single bouquet from seed to the reveal moment walking down the aisle. When a brand or florist shares that level of context and it lands, potential customers will be delighted to book and wholly trust in the experience about to unfold.

4. Waste in Unpoetic

We’ve been reporting on sustainability for years, firstly as a theme, then as an overarching narrative. Now, customers are expecting planet-kind knowledge and guidance from all their wedding suppliers, be it production aspects, florals, catering, clothing or gifting. Katie usefully reminds us of The Vintage House That Could ethos:

Katie: “Happily, I am pleased that more and more couples are questioning the sustainability of their weddings though as the whole core of my business is vintage and recycled pieces. All aspects of the day are reused from ceremony flowers reappearing in the reception spaces through to using recycled paper and repurposing props. Leftover flowers even become confetti for more weddings. Making weddings more sustainable doesn’t impact on the overall look but it does mean that couples spend less on throwaway tat and more on things that will have a greater meaning.”

I recently polled florists in my Instagram community about whether or not they agreed customers are becoming increasingly savvy about seasonality and species selection from a sustainability point of view. Agree or disagree. The poll was an even split, but the resulting DMs unanimously agreed that customers are asking more insightful questions. Caring more. Wanting answers before committing to quotes and moodboards, even though they may not be fully armed with the floral intel themselves.  

Issy adds a layer of thought that has evolved from 2020/2021 global events.

Issy: “I’m always gathering my inspiration from antiques, fashion, art, film, architecture, and walks around the Cotswold countryside. I photograph everything, and always use my photography as reference points when sketching and designing ideas for my clients. I forage different foliage whilst out walking and find vessels and vases in the deepest darkest antique shops, I wander the gardens of heritage houses and spot a particular rose, hundreds of years old and look at the way it’s petals fold. Over the pandemic, we had so much time on our hands, to slow down and appreciate the world around us. I noticed things now that I never would have previously when so busy day to day.”

Issy: “People are no longer interested in fast floristry. We have had all this time to think, read, breathe… And this has given my audience, and clients in particular, time to re-think the way in which they demand florals. For us, the slowing down element has always been at the heart of Wizz & Wild, using regenerative and traditional farming methods in our cutting garden. We use almost a third of our land to fill with cover crop, attracting bees and butterflies to pollinate the working beds. We also introduce a crop rotation twice a year, as well as producing our own compost to increase organic matter into our soil (which is often where the flowers from our weddings go once the day is over). My client is so much more conscious than before, and I think that is down to the sustainability narrative we read more and more about every day. ‘Slow and seasonal’ is not just an aspiration, it is something we are actively providing.” 

I am reminded of the quote by What’s Wrong with the World author GK Chesterton.

Note to self – Poetry is always luxurious. Waste is unwanted. Wasted time. Wasted energy. Wasted resources. Wasted planet.

Pictured above: Life on and around the farm for Issy Watts, Wizz & Wild

5. Rooted in Nature, Rooted at Home

So we circle back. Come back to nature, come back home. Revisit the idea that we are all just being humans in our floral businesses, trying our best, inspiring our customers, seeking connections, growing financial wealth, or simply growing.

Katie: “Even more so than before people are conscious of how their homes look and feel, so the relaxed and the natural vibe has had a resurgence. Natural materials and colours are everywhere, terracottas, nudes, all shades of green are so popular and this has clearly had an impact on wedding décor choices too. In the same vein, there is still a love of dried flowers but with fresh mixed in to make it feel more seasonal. My couples are only using florals and colours of the season and make choices based on these factors rather than what is on trend. I always encourage my couples to think about their interior choices too, for example I ask “would you have this in your house?” If the answer is no, then why would you have it at your wedding?”

Katie: “My biggest reference point is and will always will be nature, which for me includes all aspects not just floral points of interest but this could be something as simple as the colour of a shell or the shape of a leaf.”

“My biggest reference point is and will always be nature.”

– Katie Sutton, creative stylist and floral designer, The Vintage House That Could

Issy: “Here on the farm, we live wholeheartedly with the seasons, from the cutting garden, to cooking from the kitchen garden, painting, drawing, dressing, farming, combining all of these things feed my imagination and help me create beautiful floral sets for my clients, in a gentle and thoughtful way. I love the idea of being able to re-connect people with nature, bringing the outside, in, and helping them to understand the processes by which we work. Rather than create a uniform bouquet of flowers, I like to think we are re-discovering the imperfectly perfect lessons of nature and nurturing that. We use ingredients that are original, exciting and memorable, often foraged from hedgerows or picked straight from our cutting garden which may still have a ladybird or two on their leaves.”

Imperfectly perfect

Perfectly imperfect

Conclusion

Upon publication day of this document, it has become mandatory to wear masks in shops and on public transport once more in England. A cold shiver runs through me. I close off the report with such a hopeful heart that caution over the next few weeks or months leads to the boyant, celebratory wedding season 2022 has promised to be. Breaking the boundaries and going big, as Issy calls it. Katie, Issy and I would love to hear your thoughts and plans if you’ve enjoyed reading our collated ideas about the year ahead. All the links are below. My Wedding Bouquet Illustration Service thrives from referalls and recommendations by our shared floral community and I’m buzzing to receive next year’s commissions. I’ll be sharing illustrations, more behind-the-scenes of my business and ideas about creative living over here on the blog and of course oversharing daily ramblings on Instagram. It’s made all the more fun just by having you along for the ride – with continued thanks. 

With Thanks

It takes a village to compile this report and I’m grateful to every contributor, including creative teams who allow us to share images. Huge thanks to contributing editors Katie Sutton and Issy Watts, for sharing their businesses and ideas with big open hearts. Find out more About Me here, or all the squad’s links below.

Katie Sutton / The Vintage House That Could   |   Website   |   Instagram

Issy Watts / Wizz & Wild   |   Website   |   Instagram

Andrea McDowell / Dahlia Beach  |   Website   |   Instagram

Joanna Southwell / brand positioning and retail mentor   |   Website   |   Instagram

Freya Deabill / stationer Deabill & Quince / brand designer The Brand New Studio   |  Website   |   Instagram

Zuzana Hewer / Fig & Flower   |   Website   |   Instagram

Carla Blain Photography   |   Website   |   Instagram

Thanks to Jen Feroze / copywriter Jackdaw Editorial for sense-checking and ensuring I delete entire paragraphs of oversharing (even though that bit was quite funny…)

Thanks to Sophie / designer A Lover’s Thread, Liz / florist Blue Sky Flowers and Sally / florist Halo Blossom for your well-timed enthusism ensuring this beast gets written and shared. 

Love Charlotte

40 Before 40: 40 Goals to Achieve Before my 40th Birthday

A Creative Living Challenge

Introduction

“Who wants to do a 40 before 40 list?” says my school friend Julia Davies, founder of The Quiet Rebel Club, in the midst of all of us turning 37. I’m a big fan of a list, but it’s really only in the last year that I’ve made a to do list work for me. Essentially, it means realigning your actions with your core values and goals, and scrubbing out every “should do” item that creeps on (unless it essential to daily life  – MOT, fixing something that is broken, going to the dentist…). My weekly list used to be 50 items long, and so…bleurgh. Boring. Now, it’s around 10-15 and always at least half filled with goodies. 

Today, I’m sharing the list for a giggle and also maybe for some accountability. And because I want the original version on record before I overwrite it with updates over the following 2.5 years. Have a read and please let me know if you want to join in (obvs you don’t have to be heading for 40, just insert whatever number of goals and whatever deadline you fancy). 

The Goals I’ve Already Ticked Off Since my Last Birthday

1. Complete compiling my 40 before 40 (15th April 2024) list. No, it’s not cheating.

2. Watch the sunrise somewhere with a view. I woke early during an Airbnb cottage stay in the South Downs with a view over a meadow and out to a lake. There was a woodpecker. I’m not sure I’d ever seen a woodpecker for real before.

3. Be a London tourist with my daughters. Done. It was like having toddlers again, as since the Pandemic they have completely forgotten how to walk down a crowded pavement, move through a ticket barrier and negiotiate an escalator. It was like herding an octopus into a Coke can. 

4. Read The Magical Art of Not Giving an F by Sarah Knight. Not ground-breaking for me, but packed with healthy reminders and overall, an enjoyable read.

5. Read Notes on a Nervous Planet by Matt Haig. I love listening to Matt on podcasts and found the book a pacy read of eclectic thoughts. I wouldn’t read it if you are actually experiecing anxiety though, as it reminded me of things I had forgotten I should be anxious of – like Electro Magnetic Radiation.

6. Go on a boat trip. I’ve been on a couple, actually. For one of them, I was dressed as a pirate. 

7. Read Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker. Highly recommend. I helped me process what I went through when I had my first (non-sleeping) daughter. I also think I’ve picked up some nuggets about children/teen sleep and what happens in your body when you go to bed late or rise early (spoiler alert: it’s not good). Thought-provoking. A tad sciencey in place. There are podcast interviews where you will definitely get the gist instead. 

8. Read The XX Brain by Dr Lisa Mosconi. All humans should read this, but especially women over 30. It’s sciencey but accessible, shocking in places, ultimately empowering. I wrote to her to say thank you for writing this book after reading it, as I think sometimes we forget to thank authors who move us as reading is very one-directional.  

Trips

9. Treehouse minibreak with best school girlfriends 

10. Day out with my father, his choice

11. Day out with my mother, her choice

12. Fancy afternoon tea with my daughters

13. Take my daughters to a West End musical

14. Take a kitchen garden mini break for two eg The Pig

15. Plan a special day out with my godson

Relationships

16. Write a letter to five best girlfriends

17. Host a garden dinner party for friends

18. Big night out with school run mums, outside of our postcode, with no curfew

Skills

19. Sell a product with my illustration printed on it

20. Take piano lessons

21. Try a new dance class

22. Be hired as a creative living mentor

23. Take a driving lesson, by order of my school best friends

24. Learn to wallpaper

25. Run 5k under 30 mins

26. Hold a yoga headstand

The Rest of the Reading List

27. Read Essays in Love by Alain de Botton

28. Read Olive by Emma Gannon (I asked for contributions from a few of my inner circle. This book was proposed by a schoolfriend to deepen my understanding of what it means to be childfree by choice)

29. Read Any Human Heart by William Boyd (proposed by uni friend)

30. Read A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini (proposed by my mother)

31. Read The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night Time (proposed by another schoolfriend)

32. Read Think Again by Adam Grant

33. Read Super Attractor by Gabrielle Bernstein

34. Read The Good Ally by Nova Reid

At Home

35. Schedule all our Lockdown wishing jar wishes This is a jam jar of ideas we created throughtout 2020. Everytime one of us said “I wish we could just go to the cinema” or “I reeeeeaalllly fancy sushi tonight” – it got scribbled down and put into the jar. 

36. Reduce household single-use plastic to bare minimum (need to find a way to qualify this)

37. Reduce Amazon Prime consumption to bare minimum (need to find a way to qualify this)

38. Eat veggie for one week

39. Have up to date photo albums

40. Create an A1 artwork I’m proud of, just for us

The list will change, of course. My commitment to the yoga headstand is hovering around the 20-30% mark. I’m content with the idea that the list is organic, dynamic, just as all goals can be. I’m am loving checkig in on my friends’ progress too, especially Julia who is fastidious about marking which of the tasks are in progress. I know I’ll open up the spreadsheet around my birthdays/ Christmas/ New Year’s Eve and make cheeky tweaks. It’s ok. Creavite living is for the process, not the outcome. 

love Charlotte

Muddy Boots and Mindful Gardening

with Grace Alexander Flowers

Introduction

It’s raining as I type today. And as our glorious English language allows us multitudal phrases for expressing the weight and ferocity of raindrops, right now I’d say “it’s chucking it down.” And there’s nothing that could inspire me to get my boots on and head outside regardless, than the little Instagram squares of Grace Alexander Flowers.

Flower field gardener, clinical psychologist and author Grace publishes her new book Grow and Gather today, to inspire us all to grow with what we’ve got. “A simple patch of earth is plenty,” she says encouragingly, to “transform your wellbeing and find a greater connection to your garden and yourself.” 

In celebration of publication day, I interview Grace about her experience of writing the book. 

Why did Grow & Gather need to be written? 

I resisted hard making this a ‘how-to’ or a project based book, there are enough of them already and also google. The bit of gardening that is hardest is to know how and when to enjoy it, how to accept that nature will do its thing despite you (and in spite of you) and that’s not a problem, that’s absolutely magic. We need to unlearn a lot of the colonialism of gardening and develop much more of a light touch. More respect. More just knowing that the process is the thing, not the outcome.  

Who is the book for? 

People who adore flowers and glorious, deep imagery. People who get a tingle in their fingers when they see a really sumptuous book. But also it is a book for people who get in their own way. Over-thinkers, over-workers, people who have been taught that their value is in what they do, their achievements and their outcomes. There is space for you in this book to just be.

 space to just be

love, charlotte

Personal Style

with Stacey Hartley, founder, To Be Revealed Styling

Introduction

My Instagram community love to slide into my DMs with questions about my personal style and its touch points with Charlotte Argyrou Illustration. It’s a funny one, because it is not really been something I’ve consciously developed or refined. Rather, I’ve ebbed and flowed with my passions and tastes, along with the desire to truly connect with my dream clients through my creative work. So I spoke to Stacey Hartley, floral and event designer and tablescaper of To Be Revealed Styling. Like me, Stacey had a previous career in the fashion industry, and I was keen to see where this helped and hindered in her business concept. We chat below about floral connection, personal and creative business style, and share our tips to help you discover yours.  

Charlotte: I totally agree. Working in high fashion as a publicist (working on everything from the international fashion weeks to store launches to celebrity dressing) gave me an acute awareness of trends. In my twenties, I felt pressure to buy into each trend, to demonstrate my awareness and expertise. But as I matured and gained greater security in my own style, I found it far easier to let some trends wash straight over me. I’m talking to you normcore and cycling shorts….  

In the Beginning

Stacey: I’ve always found myself wanting to wear things that are a little bolder than others. I’m not sure where my flower connection started but I think it comes from being a child that always wanted to be outdoors. I loved being playful and I haven’t grown out of that at all as I’ve grown up. I do think my years in retail gave me the expressive period that I think most of us go through. I remember picking out my outfits and buying clothes for work and suddenly noticing that I was building up a lovely collection of floral garments – something my husband now affectionately calls my Botanical Garden. 

Stacey: I think the only pain point I had about my own style was what suited my figure. Naturally as a woman I have fluctuated but what has probably bothered me the most is suffering with IBS and digestive issues. The bloat is real for me unfortunately, more often than not. When it worsened, I started to become more ‘floaty’ and ‘free’. Gradually it just became a thing. I never liked wearing jeans – I find them restrictive and annoying. I feel my best self in a big bold printed dress. Finding my own happiness with my style definitely came from all these factors combined.

Charlotte: I think it’s so inspiring how you transformed a negative into a positive. You’ve made what works for your body harmonious with your mind and personality. There’s a lesson for all of us there!  

What’s Right for You

Stacey: I think everyone looks back on things they used to wear and cringes, but I think it’s just part of figuring it all out.

Charlotte: Like my bodycon dress obsession circa 2010?

Stacey: My style has evolved so much across the bold spectrum, but leaving my retail job in 2018 definitely allowed me to cement my own signature style. To Be Revealed Styling‘s connection to nature and all things floral again has given me such a huge boost. As time has gone on, I’m not bothered by people’s opinions and focus solely on what makes me feel amazing and powerful!

I remember when I was a dancer and had spent a full month wearing black and had to spend hours doing my hair everyday. The day we finished that particular show I remember feeling horrible and just wanted to feel nice. So I jumped in the shower, washed two weeks worth of hairspray from my hair, popped on a floral dress and some brogue boots and just felt incredible – like I had come back to life. It really helps my mental health to feel completely happy in what I wear each day. 

Personal Style in Creative Business

Charlotte: So let’s talk about how and where your personal style and business style meet. How did To Be Revealed Styling begin, aesthetically? 

Stacey: I always thought it would be really easy to find my own style when I set up my business. It came about really randomly as I needed a huge change after working in the dance industry for many years. I initially did some training as a wedding planner but soon realised that it wasn’t for me, but the style side absolutely was! They would always say in the training “Find your style – Find your niche” and I think that can sometimes be a bit consuming and scary when you’re new.

Stacey: My personal style is much more floral filled, dark moody and maximal than I was going for with my branding and work. It just took me a little time to realise that the actual reason why I wasn’t connecting myself or connecting fully with others was because it clearly wasn’t an accurate representation of who I am. I guess I didn’t realise that the whole ‘trend’ thing had crept back in, this time with my business.  

Charlotte: In the early days of Charlotte Argyrou Illustration, I was so eagar to be liked by everyone and receive every booking possible. I think this lack of confidence revealed itself through my – frankly – “vanilla” branding. Everything was white and plain with a little bit of grey as an accent colour.

The 2020/21 Pandemic

Stacey: The Covid19 lockdowns really reignited my flower love and that is probably where I made stylistic breakthroughs. I don’t know about anyone else but I’m not the kind of person who can sit in my pyjamas or loungewear. Even everyday in lockdown I got up and got dressed nicely. It’s just who I am and I love it.

Charlotte: I hear you. Though homeschooling led me to some long, loungewear-based days, I certainly enjoyed #DressUpFriday to entertain myself and my Instagram community.

Stacey: It might sound crazy, but the lockdowns gave me some time to really think about myself. A business that reflects me and my passions makes me light up. I wasn’t wanting to just do weddings. I saw my business being broader in terms of offering, but more niche in terms of actual style. So I set up a huge floral filled, maximal styled shoot where I could just set myself free and get the imagery that really reflects my style. All in Bloom was just the contents of my brain and the most ‘me’ shoot that I have ever done. Everything changed from that shoot and you’ll definitely see the change in my business style.

Charlotte and Stacey’s 3 Tips for Personal Style

1. Disconnect

Step away from being fed constant information and inspiration for a little while. Disconnect from other opinions.

2. Reconnect

We are at our most self conscious when we are uncomfortable and in personal style this leaves us vulnerable. We must feel comfortable in our own skin and connect with the work we do. Lean in to what feels good and you’ll find your most authentic inspiration.

3. Take Massive Imperfect Action

In your creative business, step back to look into your business from an outside perspective. Ask trusted peers and ideal clients questions on what they see and how they feel when they see your work and your images. If the answers aren’t what you think or what you want them to be – it’s definitely time to make some changes. Brainstorm things that make you who you are and fill your energetic cup, and keep going until you find dots are joining. 

Transition

Stacey: The hardest thing for me when making changes in the business was losing followers. It felt quite disheartening but was outweighed by all the new followers I gained when I shifted to my more genuine, signature style. Ones who truly get me and connect to what I do.

Stacey: Now, I am focusing more on tablescapes and flowers with a hint of food thrown in there too. Three things I love. Everything I do has a maximal, floral edge – still with a hint of moodiness in terms of imagery. I’m also edging towards working more with brands and on campaigns. I recently worked as a floral stylist for a luxury bathing brand which was a dream. They found me via my website which is another amazing thing which makes refining and commiting to my signature style a very worthwhile process. 

And Finally

Stacey: Finding your signature style can feel so scary, but honestly it just comes from within. I’m always inspired by bold women who are flamboyant and so comfortable with how they dress and in their creative work. That is where you find it. Your signature style is right there in that feeling. 

Find Out More

If you’ve be seduced by Stacey’s personal style and creativity, you can find out more here:

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With thanks to taylarjaydephotography.com and lauramarthaphotography.com 

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